Wednesday, April 22, 2020

No way to social distance

My mom’s college friend invited the family down to Florida for Christmas break 1990. The plan was going to be us visiting the beach and going to Walt Disney World. The plans were suddenly halted when he decided to marry his Russian friend who visited him and decided she wanted to stay in America. Mom quickly made new plans because she was excited about taking my sister and I down to Walt Disney World.


It was a hot and steamy August evening as we got on the Trailways bus. Greyhound bus drivers had been on strike for the past 5 months, so most people were using Trailways for cross country trips. As we entered the crowded bus, I could smell the musk, sweat, and unwashed scent of the other passengers. The fabric lined seats were worn from use. People’s carry on luggage were pushed under seats or on peoples’ laps. The bus was full to the brim with people with little room for anyone to breath. If it were 2020, we would say there was nowhere to socially distance from anyone else.

As I took in the scene, my thoughts were interrupted by a man’s voice.

“Here, take your luggage,” demanded the bus driver. “There is no room underneath.”

I quickly grabbed my luggage to join the several other pieces in the aisle of the bus.

As I tried to find a seat for the hour-long journey south, I noticed that every seat was filled except for two right by the gross smelly bathroom in the back of the bus. No one offered to get up and allow anyone in my family a seat.

“You need to sit down,” declared the bus driver.

Quickly we decided who was going to sit where on the bus because there was not enough seats and we could not wait for the next bus.
Mom and Tanya ended up in the two seats in the back of the bus. Guess where I was going to be sitting? On top of a suitcase, straddling it for dear life while we drove down I-75 down towards Cincinnati.

If anyone knows this corridor of I-75, they realize that it is not the best decision to be sitting in the middle of an aisle on a bus. It is notorious for accidents and people driving while not paying attention.

So not only was I, a tiny human being at that point in my life, straddling the suitcase, it was also nighttime so I could barely see a thing in that bus. I could hear people farting, moving around, and breathing. An occasional reading light was a glow. All the while, I was holding onto the suitcase for dear life.
Once that hour-long bumpy and frightening journey was complete, we were got off that death trap because it was time for the real journey to begin. In her haste to change the plans, she decided we were going to take a train from Cincinnati to Virginia. We were going to get off the train and visit with said friend and then get back on the train in either Washington, D.C., or Richmond. Then it was going to be riding on that train the rest of the way down to Florida.

Thirty years later, I’m thankful for the chance to take a train down to Florida for my first visit to Walt Disney World. Even though I was more worried about being bored, exploring the train, and trying to find boys, it allowed me to experience a slower paced way of travel. I just wished I didn’t have to ride in the middle of an aisle on the way down to Cincinnati beforehand. I learned people don’t always show common sense manners because I should have been offered a seat by one of the other passengers.

Oh, and that marriage to his Russian friend Well, within a year of marriage, it had crashed and burned.

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